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His friend is so nice to me too, much nicer than my husband. My husband revealed that even his best friend had already told him to stop and not disrespect me. For my birthday last year, his best friend remembered something I had told him a long time ago that was extremely meaningful to me and got me a small gift reflecting it. My husband remembers very little about me and I would never expect something thoughtful from him. Lately I cannot stop thinking about his best friend. Am I completely terrible?

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This is my situation I have been married for 6 years and together for 9 years and we have 2 beautiful girls. For the past couple of years it seems that every time I turn around we are fighting for some little thing, and even more when he drinks. It almost seems that he hates me, even though the next day it is like nothing ever happened.

What i learned loving my husband’s best friend

And even though the fights and hurtful words I seem to want to just erase it all and start over the next day. But the reason for this e-mail is that I have had a lot of thoughts about ending my marriage. I know I love my husband to death but all the mistreatment and no more affection except in bed once a week Well I was talking to one of his best friends one day on the phone, just a friendly conversation, and out of the nowhere he came on to me, and I let him.

Nothing has gone beyond that so far, but I am really thinking about it. His friend really showed me interest and not only that it seems that he has felt like this for almost 2 years ago, but just never said anything.

We did, however, promise each other that the conversation we had would stay between us. How can I tell if my marriage is just a convenience to stay together as a family for my children? Or to even try to change things to make it better? First, it sounds like you marriage is less than ideal.

I have a crush on my husband’s friend

There is a lot of bickering and your husband sounds like he has a lot of anger and hostility toward you. Typically, this type of fighting between couples usually means that there are some unresolved issues between the two of you related to control, respect, and liking see relationship dynamics.

Relationships work the best when they are built on respect, understanding and trust see healthy relationships. In fact, for a relationship to work long term there must be a lot more positive than negative interactions Gottman. And it is common for people in less than ideal relationships to gloss over problems and pretend that things are ok, when, in fact, there are serious problems that need to be addressed.

I have a crush on my husband’s friend

Unfortunately, many people deal with such relationship problems in an indirect manner. Rather people deal with their problems in a variety of indirect ways: drinking, displaying negativity toward a partner, attraction to others, etc. Our best advice is not to confuse these two issues.

Deal directly with the problems you are having with your husband before you even consider whether to explore your feelings for his friend. If you try to work out the problems you are having with your husband first, in an honest and constructive manner, everything else should become more clear.

In love with my husband’s best friend

But by pursuing your feelings for his friend right now, you will only make things more complicated and confusing for everyone. I have my own question to ask. Past Comments But there is only so much that one can handle. Please help Would it even be worth it?

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