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Posted July 8, Reviewed by Lybi Ma. Author and blogger Chris Ryan guest hosted the Savage Love sex advice column this week.

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I am a straight male, married to a woman for 25 years. Our marriage started to go sour about 14 years ago. Sex was infrequent and stultifying.

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Finally, when the kids were old enough, I made plans to separate. When my wife got wind of these plans, she finally agreed to work on our relationship. We had long and heartfelt conversations. Things got better.

Sex got more frequent, if not more exciting. Then I saw a letter referencing cuckolding in your column in the Coastthe weekly paper here in Halifax. I mentioned it to my wife. She asked me to read it to her. This led to a conversation about the possibility of introducing cuckolding into our relationship.

She agreed after she made certain it was something I really wanted. She now has a guy in mind. My first choice for this scenario would be all three of us having sex. My second choice would be he and I having sex with her.

The third would be me watching. The last would be them having sex and me hearing about it afterward. She has opted for the last option and is reluctant to share all the details.

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She has asked me why her having sex with another man is so exciting. She speculated it is because I have a big ego—if other men want her, her value is higher. That sounded weird to me. For me, it is all about sex.

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The idea of her letting another guy in, going down on him, et cetera is exciting to me. We will be breaking the rules for what married couples are supposed to do. I have been on cuckolding websites. It seems a lot of guys go in for humiliation.

Some claim they have small dicks and want a larger man to satisfy their wives. None of those things apply to me. I just think it is hot, exciting sex. My question: has there been research into cuckolding? Why do husbands find it hot and desirable? It is only in the past decade or so that this fantasy has catapulted itself into the public consciousness, largely due to an intersection of female sexual liberation and the ability of the Internet to allow men with these fantasies to find each other and learn they are not alone.

But there are many other motivations as well. Some men are into the idea of cuckolding and humiliation, in a masochistic way.

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Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, who masochism was named after, explored this fantasy specifically for the humiliation of it. Essentially, the theory goes that men get physically aroused when they know that their sperm might have to compete with those of another man, in order to possibly even theoretically impregnate a woman. In such circumstances, the men thrust harder and deeper during sex, they ejaculate harder, and their ejaculate contains more sperm.

If you pursue this, do it with honest communication on both your parts. You can follow Dr. Ley on Twitter at www. I am a straight year-old girl in college. This friend has been in a relationship for 2. But his girlfriend cheated on him, and now he has a free card to go fuck someone else.

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He wants that person to be me! Unless there are just two guys at your college—your ex and this dude with the Go Fuck Someone Else card—I would urge you to fuck someone else. This scenario has drama written all over it. Who needs that kind of grief? One of our favourite things to do is for me to deep-throat their cock.

They sometimes fuck my throat, quite roughly at times.

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Is there a medical danger to deep-throating? Sometimes it makes my throat a little sore for a few days after.

What should we do? Could we be harming my throat?

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